For the version of you who feels everyone else’s tension before you even check in with yourself, this one is for you.

The sharp tone. The weird silence. The panic in the room that somehow ends up in your chest.

This Frequency is your reminder that caring does not mean absorbing.

Not every mood is your responsibility. Not every spiral needs your rescue. And not every anxious person gets access to your nervous system.

In This Episode

We’re talking about emotional absorption, people-pleasing, nervous system overload, boundaries, and learning how to care without carrying what was never yours.

Take This With You

You can care without carrying.
Their anxiety is not your assignment.
Put that shit down and come back to yourself.

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